Christy Tending is back for her sixth visit, and this time we’re talking about how our lives and businesses have recently evolved. It’s a living discussion, and one that started when we met to co-work at a cafe this summer and found ourselves diving into a conversation about how we’d recently had a very mindful and impactful experience of making decisions that have intrinsically changed who we are, and how we approach things.
In this episode, Christy Tending and I talk about:
How things can reach a point where it’s no longer possible for you to continue doing what once worked for you How Christy quit drinking and the reasons why she chose to make that change The intrinsic connection between making decisions as a consumer, capitalism, and politics How I called bullshit on the idea that “the other shoe was about to drop” in my personal life and marriage How nagging is a choice, and how to stop nagging (zen moment: just stop) How you can create a business or an offering, or a podcast, by focusing on the things that seem easy to you What’s easy for you is not necessarily easy for anyone else (and how that leads you to discount the power of what comes easily) Why it’s important to talk about the role of racism, alcoholism, climate, and other pieces of our heritage that we don’t find acceptable with our children Why and how stating what your business stands for, and how it has evolved helps you find your true audience (and why that’s OK) How we evolve and become more comfortable with stating what words fit us (anarchist, Buddhist, etc) The roles of studentship and conversely, being a “guru” Studentship: What it looks like to be a student of your own process, and of learning new things as you go The possible role of self doubt and the inner critic when you complicate things The balance of really not knowing the outcome of any situation, and finding our way to be confident and share our expertise around something The wisdom of leaning on others in your community for knowledge and leadership, instead of acting like one person knows everything (which they don’t) The importance of having community in business We all have access to the divine any time we want it, and we all have access to politics and power whenever we want it That capitalism tells us that if we are good at something and it is lucrative: we’re supposed to do that thing until we dropResources
Christy Tending’s beautiful new website
Christy Tending’s podcast: Tending Your Life
