When you want to get something that you don't have, you're going to have to do something you haven't done.
If you want to go up, you've got to give up. And in order to go up, you got to give up things in your life.
You learn how to work and grind earlier in life.
Ask yourself:
*Are you willing to give things up to get what you want?
*What must you get rid of to go get the life you want?
Do what's required and you'll get what's desired.