It is not the event that causes the suffering.
You suffer because you make all kinds of meaning around things that don't need to have extra meaning to them.
Ask yourself:
*What's the truth?
*Where am I making up unnecessary, unworkable, and disempowering meaning?
*Am I making up unnecessary meaning in my life that's causing me to suffer?
*Am I making up a story about who I am or who I'm not or what I have or what I don't have or why I couldn't possibly go do the required actions to get what I want?
Change your story, change the meaning, and stop making up meaning.
