My wife and I go on weekly dates.
It’s not always easy to find the time every single week, but it’s vitally essential. I used excuses about not being able to find babysitters, but one of my coaches showed how silly that excuse was.
My wife is my Goddess, and she is worth finding and paying for a babysitter so I can cultivate a lasting marriage.
How do I do that?
I get present.
Whether it’s putting my phone aside, into airplane mode, or turn it off, I’m not building a relationship with my phone; I’m cultivating the greatest gift I can give my loved ones, which is my time and attention by focusing on them, not the most recent notification.
You will notice a power that comes from being present with others.
When you give the gift of your time to others, you will produce the highest amount of value for yourself and those around you.
Ask yourself:
* Who matters the most in my life?
* What do I need to put away so I can give time and attention to those who matter?
* What would happen if I was present with my individual family members?
Be focused on the present moment by being there for those that matter.
