Tommy takes one of the tips from his first book "25 Tips for Divorced Dads" and it is tip number 4 where it is about telling our kids everyday that we love them. Tommy also talks to the men that they need to be better role models when they are in public with their kids. Use courage to say to another man that they love them. Women have zero issue telling friends that they care about them or that they love them as well. Tommy just wants dads to set the tone for their kids so not only do the kids hear those words of love but can easily same them to their male friends as they get older.