Get ready for a SPECIAL EDITION EPISODE with my fiancee' Chris Bruce, except this time he is interviewing me about every reason why we almost weren't able to make this relationship work.
I don't know If I ever told anyone this, but the first 3 years of my relationship with my fiancee' I was dating a man I really didn't care to understand. I knew he flipped houses, I knew he was into digital marketing, I knew he loved to be spontaneous, and I loved him dearly. However, I didn't ever understand what he meant when he was constantly talking about "self-development and "fixing yourself."
I often thought, "Why would I read self-development books if nothing is wrong with me?" Yea guys, I was that big headed. lol. Honestly, I just had no idea what a good look in the mirror looked like. I had no idea what taking responsibility and constructive criticism meant because all I knew how to do was create the high goals, check the boxes, be honored for them, and move on to the next.
It wasn't until 2017 that I really started to understand the value of self-development and the true power of walking the same path as my soon to be spouse and man was I missing out. This wasn't copying what he was doing, it was seeking my own journey that then allowed us to better understand one another.
So join us today for a SUPER vulnerable conversation as we discuss contending for each others time, how my mindset almost broke us apart, and how much things have changed now that we are walking a similar path.