Inclusion and belonging are universal needs, and the need to heal the differences that divide us is growing every day. But we know that not everyone has the privilege of using their voice to affect the change that is so urgently needed. Mike Robbins is an author and speaker who is using his place of privilege to be that voice and help heal the world. Mike and I speak of the need for authenticity in all of our relationships and how to effectively speak up as an ally for those who aren’t in a position to speak for themselves. Mike shares his heart as he offers his perspective and the emotions that come with working to empower people everywhere.
[:01] Carley Hauck introduces herself as the founder of Living Well Awake, the new Shine podcast, and her upcoming new book — Shine- Ignite your inner game to lead consciously at work and in the world, available March 2020.
[1:40] Carley reflects on recent political activity that has removed the United States from the Paris Agreement and the current environmental climate in India.
[6:10] Carley introduces Mike Robbins, author, speaker and thought leader who is committed to understanding race, ethnicity and the reasons behind polarity in our workplace and our world.
[7:46] Mike shares the inspiration behind his fifth and latest book We’re All In This Together and his concern for the immense diversity that is present throughout the world.
[11:34] The continuum of authenticity runs from being phony to being honest and, ideally, to being authentic and honest without any measure of self-righteousness.
[15:02] Inclusion and belonging is a universal need, but how can we allow ourselves to feel vulnerable enough to promote belonging when there is so much polarization in the workplace and in the world? It starts with ending the desire to be the ‘biggest victim’.
[20:58] Everyone has different reasons for why experiences are difficult for them, but creating inner belonging is the first step to cultivating outer belonging.
[24:10] Privilege means your starting line is closer to a goal than someone else's. What positive and productive changes are you willing to make with your privilege?
[26:58] Mike shares his life experiences with the Man Box culture and how it has shaped his views about the .
[32:55] Is there a pathway for forgiveness and redemption in a culture that currently promotes never apologizing for and never for forgiving offenses?
[40:15] How can men speak up and speak out against men who are being unhealthy and unconscious at work and in the world? People in privileged positions are in the best place possible to speak up and be the change.
[47:46] Being a true ally starts with stepping up and speaking up when things are happening.
[51:06] Slowing down allows us to focus more on the things that bring us together and less on the things that drive us apart.
[54:34] Mike shares the practices that allow him to show up as a conscious leader, starting with his physical and mental health, his writing, and grounding himself in his family.
[57:38] Carley shares details of the upcoming Transtech Conference in Palo Alto, CA on November 15th-16th and highlights her coaching package and free 30-minute discovery coaching sessions.
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