Christina answers the question: “This is our first round of holidays without our person. Have plotted things that are different for both Thanksgiving and Christmas so my son and I are not simply staying at home feeling our loss, constantly. This said for the firsts, the anticipation of the event seems to be for me the worst. Event day is pulled together with leaky eyes, recognition of missing our person and getting through the day. I would love to know if this gets easier as years pass, however, I’m beginning to feel nothing really is easier. Things shift. What do you do to remember your person without feeling a crushing sense of loss?”
-Katharene
