#18 - Playing the Long Game

It’s another solo-cast with Andrew Love, as he talks about the path he took to getting married, his victories and struggles in his marriage, and his recommendations for how you can overcome your own struggles!

Where is Andrew tuning in from when sharing this podcast? [0:10] What gets old? [1:50] What are our bodies? [2:20] Why is listening to Andrew’s experience helpful? [3:10] What is a good way to look at love? [4:07] What was Andrew’s marriage commitment like? [5:25] What was Andrew’s dating process like? [7:01] How did Andrew’s training process of abstinence helpful? [9:00] How did Andrew’s life change when he started having children? [10:30] What Mongolian tradition did Andrew struggle with which his wife was missing? [12:45] What struggles did Andrew endure with his wife? [13:15] What is marriage for the vast majority of humans? [19:10] What got Andrew through this difficult phase? [19:50] What does Andrew recommend in the time of struggle? [20:45] Which person would you choose to spend life with? [22:10] What is commitment to Andrew? [23:50] How can you save struggle and pain from happening? [24:50] What is High Noon about and how does it relate to sex? [26:10] What is different about Andrew’s wife that has happened after 7 years of marriage? [28:00] How does Andrew compare sex before marriage to what he has experienced in it? [29:00] What game is Andrew encouraging us to play? [31:00] Closing thoughts and encouragements. [32:30]