#25 - My Journey With Same-Sex Attraction | Gene

In this episode, Sammy interviews his friend, Gene, about his experience being attracted to the same sex. Gene also shares how he was able to approach his situation with openness and honesty, reaping the benefits of therapy and a renewed relationship with his now wife. Introducing Gene and his approach to achieving what he wanted in his marriage [1:00] What is Gene currently experiencing as great? [3:50] What did Gene experience from the age of 13? [4:45] What did Gene do to clarify what he wanted in his life? [7:30] How has Gene dealt with the conflict within himself? [9:00] How has Gene’s pursuit of his inner desire play out since he met his wife? [11:20] How did practicing honesty create a shift in Gene’s relationship? [15:45] How has having a family meant so much for Gene? [19:00] What view of children does Gene share is so important for him? [21:20] How did getting a mentor/therapist facilitate more clarity and healing for Gene? [25:30] What childhood experience was something that repeatedly came up for Gene in his therapy process? [29:50] How has dealing with these childhood experiences and being honest and vulnerable about them been for Gene? [31:30] How did Gene’s relationship with his father develop through his therapy process? [36:00] What impact did the men’s retreat have on Gene? [38:25] What resources does Gene share with the audience that he has benefitted from? (vipassana retreats, Therapist Philip Schanker & Mankind project warrior retreat) [44:30]  What does Gene share about how he experiences sex? [48:20] How does choice play a big role in Gene’s current relationship? [49:44] A call from Andrew for supporting  HighNoon [51:15]