#30 - Bring Your Wives to the Podcast Day

Andrew and Sammy invite their wives, Uyanga Love and Yi Gyu Uyama, to share and answer questions about each other’s couplehood. We get to hear how their relationships and love have grown (and struggled) over time, shaping them into priceless modes of reality they now share as a family.

Some common traits of Yi Gyu and Uyanga [5:20] More on the Uyama family [6:20] More on the Love family [7:20] More on the request which led to this podcast [8:30] What Sammy and Yi Gyu are most proud of about their family culture? [10:50] The importance of the parent’s guidance to their children as they were growing up (11:38) Differing cultural norms [12:10] Sharing on their research about fatherly involvement [13:30] What is a point of constant contention in the Uyama’s marriage? [15:55] How did the Uyamas make a compromise for each other? [21:20] The Loves answer the same question… Food & money/ long-term & short-term [30:10] Uyanga’s shift of perspective on money and sex and it’s impact on the relationship. [33:30] The Uyama’s experience with money [35:20] To the Loves: What do you think is important for a good sex life? [37:20] Get a midwife/doctor who is good at stitching! [42:20] What the Loves admire and respect most about each other? [49:40] Some advice about engaging in arguments (55:09) What do the Uyamas hope to pass on to their children? [57:15]  Exuding trust & enthusiasm, being goal-oriented and integrity while being family oriented. [1:00:20] Andrew’s take on having an adaptive family culture (1:02:21) Some fatherly experienced-based advice from Andrew (1:03:38) A call to action: Take the challenge with High Noon programs @ www.highnoon.org [1:09:40]