Raise Your Hand Say Yes with Tiffany Han
Ep. 328: Embodied Values & Bridging the Divide of Who you Are and Who you Want to Become
This week, I'm answering a listener question (hi Susan!) about how to embody and live into one's values, but I'm also taking this question deeper to talk about how to get started in bridging the divide between where you are now and where you want to be, even if (and especially when!) that divide feels overwhelming and insurmountable! I also share how you might be treating those seeds you're planting so unfairly and what to do instead as well as give some personal-for-your-agency-archetype advice for each type. (I feel like I took myself to church on this one; thank you for your question, Susan! It inspired so much!) What I said: "When it comes to embodying values, our job is to stay really fluid, nimble, and open." "If we keep taking steps, those steps might take us somewhere surprising." "If you are not embodying your own values, you're embodying somebody else's." "Commit to using your values as your compass even if everyone else seems to be loving some totally-jacked-but-socially-acceptable-enough compass to guide their lives." "The answer to getting to where you want to be is not to stay where you don't want to be." Those Timestamps: 06:11 - How to get started with a values list 08:16 - Commit to imperfect and uncomfortable action 12:47 - How small steps can be a game-changer for you 18:17 - Values as a compass 24:20 - Crossing the divide between where you are and where you want to be AND how to approach this considering your Agency Archetype 30:08 - Destruction as an unbuilding Show Notes:
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