Have you heard the story of the Lighthouse and the Tug Boat? There is a very valuable lesson in it if you haven't. Derek talks about a few different instances that will show you exactly why one philosophy works some of the time and the other works almost all of the time.
So often, people get sunk by helping others out. They sacrifice their own well being by being the Tug Boat all the time. There are some times where it works...but you can't stay there.
Make sure to check out this episode if you feel like you are always helping others but find yourself sinking...
