#71 – What Absolute Sex IS and ISN'T

The foundation of a strong and healthy relationship are proper communication and having God as the bigger focus and center of a sexual relationship, instead of just physical pleasure. If you don’t have a common understanding about having sex, the results are going to drive you farther apart, rather than closer together.

Don't compare your sexual relationship with anything or anyone, even your own past or your expectations for the future. Instead, envision yourself to be the person that you want to be, the type of relationship you want to have, and work steadily towards that. 

In this episode, Benjy and Andrew talks about the true definition of absolute sex. They’ll be sharing their experiences and understand what absolute sex is and isn’t. They’ll be diving deeper about the Divine Principle, importance of trust and communication in a relationship, how our habits affects our future, and the potential of absolute sex.

It's always good to learn from people who are in a healthy relationship, but remember that you are in a unique relationship that has never existed before. So whether you’re single, in a relationship or married, and you feel like finding yourself lost or overwhelmed, High Noon is here to help you overcome unhealthy sexual habits and understand deeper the cause and effects of this addiction.

You can also check out our episode about The Best Reason to Quit Porn.

We have a societal view that sexuality is the health of a sexual relationship defined and measured by the frequency, but not necessarily quality of the relationship. [3:18] A true relationship doesn't matter whose sex drive is stronger or weaker; it is how much you are able to selflessly serve and live for the sake of your spouse. [6:51] Everything needs a common base in order for that give-and-receive mutualism to have meaning. [11:5] If the reason why you're having sex is because you think your body needs it, but your heart and spirit are not in it. The result is feeling more detached from the relationship over time because of sex. [12:23] Sex becomes a wedge in your marriage instead of a binding agent if the reason you're having sex is not pure. [12:40] The commitment of being in a marital relationship and being blessed means that no matter what happens, we're going to grow from this experience. [19:50] The greatest thing you can do is figure out what the relationship is between the most important areas of your life and create a strong vision for that. [23:32] If you're single, this is a perfect time to start customizing your life because in this state you're really engaged in life. [24:53] Don't expect to be happy in the future if you can't find happiness here and now. [31:15]

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