#76 – Having a Life-Changing 90 Days

In life, people say that too much of anything is bad. This phrase is often used to imply that sometimes too much of the things that we like or do can be very dangerous. Some include food, habits, relationships, money, and even social media, and many more. In other words, excess of some, perhaps most things are bad especially when it becomes an addiction, and this is to be examined because it may affect an individual on various aspects. 

Now, let us look at how porn addiction, which is one of the current issues brought about by the growth of information, affects an individual's life or the life of a loved one. When someone becomes addicted to pornography, they spend so much time in it that they overlook important duties, responsibilities, and people in their lives. Certainly, internet pornography can be very damaging in that it consumes your life so if one day you suddenly feel the urge to get away from it, there are important decisions to be made.  

In this episode, Benjy and  Andrew talk about the significant effect of a 90-day session and understand why we need 90 days and what you can get out of these 3 months. Three months is a long period as it can destroy relationships, revive relationships, and create a big impact with that period. In this healing-recovery process, you can save energy instead of focusing on the sexual temptations, practice being honest, have integrity, and just being committed to internal digging and that healing process.

You can't make productive decisions while you're in a self-destructive mindset, so committing to that 90-day change will help you to have a better connection with others, especially to the people that matter to you. It will also allow you to see the impact of your impelling behavior until you experience change. You just have to keep in mind that changing your habit takes time and dedication. Everybody has different amounts of baggage that they have to clean up. Creating that vision, believing in it, and just working towards that vision with daily disciplines will help you overcome that porn addiction. It does not happen overnight, so you need to be patient and trust the process considering every experience is different for each individual. Join us as we tackle how to develop sexual integrity, build healthy habits, and quit porn for good.

God works in seasons [00:41] Church Burnout [8:18] Giving selflessly is sometimes the most selfish thing that you can do because it feeds your soul. [9:08] Possibilities of people changing in a short period [10:57] Working on the relationships, recovery, and healing process [14:00] Porn relationship causing you to be anxious or fearful [19:45] Making productive decisions [ 20:22] 90-day experience as a new way of life [26:20] Associates sexuality with intimacy [29:19] Wrestling with your emotions [32:44]

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