Today’s guest is Blaine Anderson!
Blaine is a dating coach for men. She specializes in helping guys build confidence, learn to authentically market themselves, and attract amazing partners fast. You can find her on Instagram at @datingbyblaine or her website datingbyblaine.com.In this interview, we discuss:
The 5 E's to Dating Success How to use technology to find people you want to date How to build systems in your life to meet the people you want in your life How you should view rejection Dating Red Flags How her masterclass could change your life and so much more!Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on
How has she noticed dating change over the last ten years? How technology has had a large impact on dating. Has she noticed key problems that men worldwide have when it comes to dating? Men do not know how to market themselves, to communicate to others about what makes them great partners for women. Stop selling yourself to women, stop seeking validation from them! Passion is sexy! Women are attracted to you when you are being passionate about whatever you love! Women want to join a fun life, not be your entire life What are Blaine's key 5 E's to dating? What are signs that you need a dating coach Does pick-up work? Women notice when you are not being an authenticate person, and they can spot when you are not being true to yourself. How do you build an attractive social life and build chances to meet new people? How do you overcome the fear of going out and trying new things to meet new people? It is ok to be nervous! If you want new experiences, you need to step out of your comfort zone! Rejection is part of life! Being rejected by someone isn't a life or death situation, you have just found one person you are not connected to, and are closer to finding people that you will be connected with! How can you build systems to meet women in your everyday life? Stop pressurizing yourself with unrealistic expectations, remove the burden of asking for numbers etc - go in with the only goal of meeting new people. How can you rediscover your confidence and love yourself again after a divorce, pandemic etc? Why would you want to do what Clooney would do?! How to deal with social anxiety? Practise chatting and flirting with everyone in your life, so it is natural when it comes to actually speaking to the ones you wish to date and attract How do we switch the mindset of feeling nervous to approach someone to actually feeling excited about it? You are not going to be everyone's cup of tea, 98% of people will not be interested, but the 2% will change your life! Blaine's fantastic advice for how to deal with rejection when you approach people! How should we approach people? How the situation affects how you should approach someone you are interested in? Why do you need to think of yourself as a prize and not just accept whoever is interested in you? What are dating red flags that you need to watch out for How do relationship dynamics change as we age in terms of what we want out of life and in our partners? You need to trust your gut on if they are right for you or not How can you gauge if someone is interested in your or not? How do we avoid putting someone on a pedestal and stop projecting futures with people when there isn't one How you should use technology to meet new people and obtain dates The 3 key things you need on your dating profile! You need to be unique on your dating profile. You need to seem like a real person, an attractive, passionate person. Women care far more on how you make them feel compared to how you look on whether the attraction is there ... or stays. How do you keep the spark alive when in a relationship? How to learn from your past relationships. How can Blaine help you by coaching you. Why you need to sign up for Blaine's Masterclass right now!