#98 - Three Types of Crushes | Carina Cunningham

We've all experienced having crushes at some point in our lives. Having butterflies in our stomach or feeling nervous around that certain person we like. 

A "crush" is a term used to describe someone to whom we have a strong attraction to. It can be someone who helps us establish our standards for love or our ideal partner.  Crushing on someone may be both uncomfortable and exciting but it can reveal a lot about ourselves since they are a mix of our unspoken aspirations and desires.

In Episode 98, we are joined by Carina Cunningham, as she shares the three types of crushes, what they are, and the information they reveal about ourselves. She also discusses the value of having a strong foundation of love from parents and siblings, as well as the distinction between a crush and a healthy attraction. 

Because crushes are a reflection of ourselves, having admiration for someone can help us grow and understand ourselves better. The three types of crushes discussed in this episode will help you identify what feelings you may have for a person, and how to act and react properly, hopefully to also help you avoid any rash decisions you may regret. 

We all have someone in mind that we truly like, and investing our love and energy in that one person should be worth it. Listen to explore and learn about the concept of crushes and truly understand the essence of love in Episode 98!

Shownotes

What is self-awareness [3:23] The “band-aid crush” [5:00] The dangerous aspect of band-aid crushes [12:24] The “fantasy crush” [13:01] Selective hearing [18:32] A long-term fantasy crush [20:23] The “confused crush” [23:59] The developmental misinterpretation of love [26:43] Significance of establishing a solid foundation for all types of relationships [30:35] The difference between a crush and a healthy attraction [34:00]

Click HERE for the show transcript.