Song of Songs 1:13a A bundle of myrrh is my wellbeloved unto me
Myrrh in Hebrew is Mem-Resh - meaning bitter and a drip - clearly tears both in the association with mourning and embalming, but also that to make myrrh back then they would cut the myrrh tree and the resulting resign or sap would look like tears on the trunk. A Great article on Myrrh - https://draxe.com/essential-oils/myrrh-oil/
So note what she says this mourning experience tears with all their fragrance are keep in a money sack and it is her Wellbeloved. See the connection to the Mary's (Greek for Miriam), which means bitter with the same root as Myrrh. Ad the connection to Miriam's well and boy oh boy.
So how does that look in your own life - listen for Robby's ideas.