Do You Suffer from “Inheritance Loyalty Syndrome?”
by Douglas Goldstein, CFP ®
It is common to feel emotional angst after receiving an inheritance. Inheritors may have doubts as to whether they are “allowed” to use the assets as they wish, or whether they somehow have to use them in a way the benefactor would have chosen to use them.
There are two ways to approach a sudden influx of money into your control:
Spend it on things you would never have been able to afford otherwise. The downside of this is the risk of increasing your overall cost of living and finding yourself none the richer. For example, if you choose to upgrade your car, would you be able to afford higher insurance payments, gas, and upkeep in the future? Incorporate the assets into your overall financial plan. You could use the inheritance to pay off debt (including your mortgage), fund your emergency account, or increase your savings. Other factors to consider are whether you should use the funds for charitable projects or earmark them for an inheritance for your own children.Selling inherited assets is not being disloyal
Some beneficiaries feel an emotional attachment to the inherited assets that prevents them from making logical decisions. A widow may feel that she is disputing her late husband’s judgment by selling stocks he carefully chose years ago.
Yet what was good for your benefactor is not necessarily good for you, as everyone’s financial situation is unique. It is important to realize that inherited funds are yours, and proper use of the funds means making them jive with the rest of your financial plan. Your benefactor gave you a legacy to use as you wish; s/he can’t control the assets from the grave.
Douglas Goldstein, CFP®, is the director of Profile Investment Services, Ltd. He is a licensed financial professional both in the U.S. and Israel. His best-selling book, Rich As A King: How the Wisdom of Chess Can Make You a Grandmaster of Investing, is available at online, at bookstores, and at www.RichAsAKing.com. Call (02) 624-2788 for a consultation about handling your U.S. investments from Israel. Securities offered through Portfolio Resources Group, Inc., Member FINRA, SIPC, MSRB, FSI. Accounts carried by Pershing LLC., Member NYSE/SIPC, a subsidiary of The Bank of New York Mellon Corporation. The opinions expressed are those of the author and not those of Portfolio Resources Group, Inc. or its affiliates
