If you and your mate use tit-for-tat scorekeeping, someone will always underperform while the other goes the extra mile.
In this Podcast, Dr. Ross discusses how the practice of keeping a running record of your partner’s behaviors and contributions to your marital happiness makes everything a contest – and in a contest, someone always loses.
He encourages you to foster a spirit of love and generosity. He says, “If there’s to be a contest in marriage, let it be the act of out giving the other.” The podcast is approximately 10 min. For more, visit www.HeartfeltMarriage.com.
