As tempting as it is to go to the forums and try and get help for your problem, it's really not going to help you in the long run.
It's also going to leave you feeling inadequate as all the keyboard warriors give you advice and 'common sense' which is often inaccurate.
Worse, the advice can come from those who haven't a clue what they're doing and need some sort of significance in their lives.
It's easier to criticise others than to build others up, and this is what tends to happen.
Take a listen,