I used to think I needed to pump myself up before going on video or on stage. Or sculpt what I wanted to say before raising my hand and speaking up so that it was insightful and interesting enough.
I will still be loved, people will still be inspired, clients will still want to work with me. And the result is I’m more relaxed, less drained, and people feel like they’re really seeing ME.
Well, I had a major breakthrough two weeks before I ran my recent Niche Clarity Challenge that peeled back another layer of this (there’s always more) and shifted EVERYTHING: My promotion. How I led the challenge. The subsequent enrollment of this round of Get Clear, Get Clients.
After an intense weekend of support from my mentor Jesse Koren, I emerged no longer willing to perform, try, or push.