This week Sara and Jay are talking about online dating, hooking up, consent communication online, and the culture of dick pics and other boundary crossing online. Also discussed: the male gaze, what app developers could do better, what we can do better as users, and tips for making your online dating focused on consent, communication, and mutually sexy fun.
Segments:
5:56 - Word of the Show, Dick Pic
14:55 - How All Men Benefit From Misogyny #yesallmen
22:30 - Why Are Dick Pics So Bad?
31:36 - Patreon Message
35:06 - What We Mean By "The Male Gaze"
43:05 - Apps Designed By Cis White Men & For Cis White Men
58:00 - Using Tools That Weren't Meant For Us
1:10:08 - Better Online Communication
Show Links:
https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/why-men-send-dick-pics/
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/13/magazine/women-coding-computer-programming.html
https://www.1843magazine.com/features/the-scientists-who-make-apps-addictive
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